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Long Distance Forever
by Ghost
I never thought I would see myself having this kind of amazing on-line relationship. It never crossed my mind even in my wildest dream. This is how our story goes.
It started on Dec.29, 1997 when I logged-in in a chatroom with a handle "Ghost". Whenever I had free time at work, I surt the net, actually I'm not well verse in net surfing coz Netscape was just installed in our pc those time.
I used to keep asking assistance from my friends how to get on-line in a certain chatroom. One day, a guy with a handle "Adam" said Hi to me, then we started talking for awhile.
I am 3 years older than him. I'm working then while he was in the last year of his engineering course. I got all those infos in that the same day.
Before I logged off, I adviced him to study hard and never take his studies for granted. That simple sisterly advise caught his heart that made him asked what's my email address, of course I gave him without hesitation.
Never thought this would be the start of our adventurous journey of love. The next day, I got email from him telling me he found me a very nice and interesting woman.
Reading emails is the first thing I do in the morning before I start off my work. I can use pc only at work coz I don't have my own at home.
I was a bit touched in that first email of Adam, I replied just a simple note and reminded him again to study hard. We exchange email, snail mails and pictures from then on, at least 2 emails per day not to mention we chat daily.
He waited for me for hours, often stay up late the whole night just to chat with me, as you know I'm at work, I can chat only when I'm done with my work load.
Thru emails and constant chatting, we found out we have lots of similarities. We're both Christians, we belong to different continents but our family cultures and background almost the same.
I never thought my simple advises touched his heart and find me different among all the women he knew and talked with. After a month, he sent me an ecard with "I LOVE YOU" at the end.
I was surprised then and was speechless, very flattered and there's something inside me that I couldn't explain in words how it feels, all I knew is that he touched my heart in a very special way and made me feel I am a very precious woman for him.
After a week, I told him "I LOVE YOU, TOO" it's from the bottom of my heart. Our emails and conversation in chatroom become more intense, more romantic as the day passes by.
There were times we had misunderstandings but able to work it out before we end our conversations. Adam is a real perfect, romantic gentleman.
I think he has all the qualities of a man that woman longs to be with the rest of her life. I feel so blessed for finding TRUE LOVE with Him! I consider him as GOD'S GREATEST GIFT TO ME.
We keep on overcoming lots of trials in our relationship, one of those is when we keep hearing from persons who are very close to us that our relationship won't work coz we don't know each other personally, that I may just using him to come to North America, I'm from Asia by the way.
We never give up, even up to now we're fighting for our relationship, we understand how others feel for us, we could not blame them.
I know one day, they'll see and understand how much we really love each other that we're willing to give up everything just to spend our lives together.
Yeah, it's really hard to believe this kind of relationship, it's hard to believe coz they don't feel the Magic of Love that "On-line lovers" feel.
Love can exist miles away, not only exist but live, grow and keeps getting stonger and deeper. Though there's a great distance between us, we could feel when there's something wrong either the two of us. Isn't it amazing?
For Adam and me, it's the distance that keeps us closer each day. Great trust is the foundation of our Love. He tries to call me everyday, at work and at home, even just for a few minutes just to hear each others voice.
We're on the highest clouds everytime we are with each other's company. We are now 1year and 5months together or should I say 1year and 5months keeping our Love stronger and deeper.
We haven't met in person yet. We both long so much to be together in person but we keep patient as bet things take time to happen. He plans to visit me here in my beloved country on Nov.1999, it's his work schedule that keeps him back from meeting me in person.
He's a fresh graduate and new in a position in a prestigious company. We both believe soon we will be together and never be apart again. We put our Love is God's Hand. We believe it's Him who made our paths crossed that nothing and noone can separate us! Our Love for each other is as Endless as Forever!
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